If you have ever lived with someone who you are not related odds are you know exactly what I'm talking about.
At the beginning it was fine. We had been friends in high school and living together seemed like it wouldn't be a problem. Two friends living together? Bet you've never heard that go wrong now, have you. When we first moved in at the beginning of August 2013 it seemed like everything would be fine, we knew each others pressure point, what to do and what not to do. We agreed on what parts of the apartment we would be "responsible" for. She took the bathroom and I took the kitchen and we had our own bedrooms to attend to as well.
So what problems I'm talking about?
Like I said if you have ever had a roommate you know what I'm talking about. You get comfortable, sloppy and annoying. I like to think of my self as a clean person. I like the kitchen to look a certain way and that goes for the bathroom as well. To me these spaces are for the both of us and therefor they should be clean! I don't care about how messy her room is or how messy mine is, because this is personal space. The kitchen is a place to eat, not to leave you filthy dishes in the sink for 24 hours waiting or hoping that I will do you dirty work for you.
When I make dinner I like to clean up as soon as I'm done eating. Call my crazy but I'd rather not have food all over the counter for hours later.
Without getting in to much detail, it's safe to say that I'm pretty happy we're moving out in about two months. There are times when I don't want to go out of my room of I hear the she is out of hers, just because I don't want to talk to her. That how much she annoys me these days.
When I make dinner I like to clean up as soon as I'm done eating. Call my crazy but I'd rather not have food all over the counter for hours later.
Without getting in to much detail, it's safe to say that I'm pretty happy we're moving out in about two months. There are times when I don't want to go out of my room of I hear the she is out of hers, just because I don't want to talk to her. That how much she annoys me these days.
But not everything is bad.
We were friends for about three years prior to this. She was my best friend though-out three years of High school and I find it hard to believe that three years of friendship is gone because of this. I hope that when we move to the US we'll stay in touch no matter where we end up. If she goes to one coast and I the other, so be it. I still care for my friend and can only hope that things will get better when we get some time apart, but i honestly don1t know if it will. We have changed so much since we got here, and I don't think that we are compatible anymore. Time will tell I guess.
Hope to see all your lovely faces soon, Love CJ
PS: Sorry for the rant. We all need to get things off our chest sometimes, right?
PS: Sorry for the rant. We all need to get things off our chest sometimes, right?
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